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How to say no politely and firmly

You can say no without being rude and without a long reason.

How to say no politely and firmly
When to see a doctor
Feeling unsafe: call 112 or Childline 1098.

At a glance

Do

  • Trust your gut feeling
  • Tell a trusted adult early
  • Save helplines: 1098, 112, 181

Do not

  • Do not keep a secret that scares you
  • Do not blame yourself
  • Do not share private photos or passwords

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Steps

How to say no politely and firmly
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Stay calm, stand tall, look at the person.

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Say it short: 'No, I am not comfortable.' You do not need to explain.

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3

Repeat the same words if they push. Walk away.

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Tell a trusted adult if the person keeps pushing.

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Last reviewed: 31 October 2026 · About and sources

Sources

Compiled from these public health sources. This is education, not medical advice.

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