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How to talk to a friend who is struggling

You do not need perfect words. Being there is enough.

How to talk to a friend who is struggling
When to see a doctor
Tele-MANAS 14416 or 112 in an emergency. Look after yourself too.

At a glance

Do

  • Trust your gut feeling
  • Tell a trusted adult early
  • Save helplines: 1098, 112, 181

Do not

  • Do not keep a secret that scares you
  • Do not blame yourself
  • Do not share private photos or passwords

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Steps

How to talk to a friend who is struggling
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Find a private moment. Say: 'I noticed you seem down. I am here.'

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Listen without judging or fixing.

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Ask: 'Is there someone we can tell together?' Suggest a counsellor or helpline.

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If they are in danger, tell an adult at once.

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Last reviewed: 31 October 2026 · About and sources

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Compiled from these public health sources. This is education, not medical advice.

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